Thanks for the new comments.
It took me about two hours to get to Mystic, including traffic. It was much quicker getting back, but I was also driving faster.

You're always welcome to come visit (with plenty of notice so I can clean up!) My wife is great with bbq's and we just put up a hammock. That invitation is to just about anyone, you know who you are.
The reception is tomorrow, I must be excited about it because I went to the barber by my job. I've been buzzing my own hair since I was 18, and the last time someone else touched my head was when I got married, and that'll be 10 years this August.
Thanks again all.